Hello and welcome to my new series called “Warning Signs” where I will be sharing some pointers on how to be more aware and conscious of subtle signs that can help you avoid or repair real problems that haven’t exposed themselves yet.
In this post, I will be sharing some warning signs in relationships but focusing mainly on how to detect when your man is losing interest in you.
A lot of women are clueless when it comes to understanding men. So many relationships have ended because the woman didn’t identify the warning signs early enough or she identified and dismissed them. Early detection means quick action. By the time your’e done with these pointers, you will be able to identify the warning signs even before your man realizes what’s going on. Men will always lose interest, it is up to you to sense when this is happening, identify the source of the problem and counter it quickly and quietly.
In matters of love and attraction which are built on so many emotions, constant work has to be put in to ensure its longevity. Some people think Love is self sustaining but the truth is that Love wears off every couple weeks or months. Simple Fact is that you keep finding reasons to love the person you are with and that renews the emotion for a couple more weeks and so on and so forth.
A man can love a woman for 3 main reasons: Her Personality, His physical attraction towards her and Her social status.
I cannot stress how important it is to identify which of these three broad reasons applies to your relationship because it might also be the thing that will make him stop loving you. You can’t ask him directly like “honey why do you love me?” because you won’t get a direct answer (or a true one). Chances are he doesn’t even know exactly why he loves you. He just does. The task of finding this out is yours and yours alone.
In most relationships, the men love their women for a combination of their personality and their sexual attraction to them. Social status is not as common but does exist.
So, dear ladies in relationships, ask yourselves these questions:
- Why does my man love me?
- Have I changed since we started dating?
- Does he still love me?
- Is he still attracted to me?
Tough questions I know but this knowledge is what could possibly lead to the redemption of your relationship/marriage.
I look forward to hearing from you so please take a minute to drop a comment below and share the article. I will be releasing a new article under this series every Monday.